John�s Venus Opposites Yoko�s Sun and Mercury and Conj her Neptune
Yoko There is no
doubt that you are very attracted to John though you may not always agree with
his taste or judgment. This contact makes for a strong piquant bond, in which
there can be considerable differences of style. You are drawn to him but are
rather nervously aware that he is also attractive in the eyes of others. Your
pride is on the line. You are particularly conscious that his judgment in
relationship matters is better than yours and you don't like to admit it.
Actually he looks up to you and would like to have your attention. By being
open, confident and generous you can be assured of your partner's constant
affection.
Sun first: You will often find that when you express
yourself spontaneously John has different feelings about what suits you best.
He may well be right ... in any case you can learn a lot about matters of
judgment, if you swallow your pride and listen.
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This is an important bond, giving a lot of shared areas of
interest, especially socially. There are moments of happiness through children
and family life but to some extent your basic needs are at cross-purposes. John
does have a great need to be appreciated and liked by you but he may feel that
you respond too flippantly or light-heartedly to the genuine need he has to
hear assurances of affection. Flattery will get you a long way. John is
particularly sensitive to argumentativeness and will often feel that you upset
the harmony of a given situation with disruptive conversation. Nevertheless you
have so much in common here that the positive factors outweigh the negative.
Venus first: In matters of taste John feels you to be picky
and criticizing. As far as aesthetics are concerned you can learn a lot from
him. When it comes to details you can let him pick your brain.
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Though not the most powerful influence in your relationship
this contact can exacerbate the latent tendency which John in particular might
have to over-idealise the love you feel for each other. There can be a tendency
for you both to put each other on a pedestal and blindly worship imagined and
projected qualities. In the long term this may lead to bitter disappointment,
and it is healthier to tone down overheated romantic feelings. Other facets of
this influence are the habit of idealising suffering in the relationship or
sacrificing oneself for the partner in one way or another. If people were
divine then this might work, but they are only human, and normal laws of common
sense must apply.
Venus first: Expressions of love or attachment on John's
part often leave you with an intangible feeling of sadness. A chord of longing
is struck which harps back to a past loss. Stay with the present and try not to
indulge in negative feelings.
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Yoko�s� Venus Trines� John�s Sun and Sq his Jupiter and Saturn
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John This is a
major factor for compatibility between you, bringing pleasure and happiness!
Yoko has a lot of love and respect for you - you bring warmth to her heart. She
responds to you with a desire to make your life soft and easy and can show you
how to enjoy the good things in life, from erotic pleasures to matters of
culture and taste. This is naturally heart-warming for you and definitely
supportive to your ego. When you are together you emanate a strong aura of
style and harmony and have the ability to deal with others gracefully, winning
respect and popularity as a couple. As such, you attract success and
popularity.
Venus first: Basically you think Yoko is beautiful and you
would like to be the apple of her eye. You are particularly attracted to her
taste and judgment and her graceful presence.
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Although yours can be a very loving and romantic
relationship, you do tend to stand in judgment of Yoko. You aspire to high
moral values and often interpret the style and attitude of your partner as
being indulgent or philosophically questionable - when in actual fact you could
learn a lot about how to enjoy life through her example. In matters of taste
and aesthetic judgment, she is probably your superior but all too often you
stand on your dignity, seeking to take the moral high ground. Yoko is attracted
to you because of your understanding and wisdom, so avoid alienating her by
being unappreciative, and judgmental. This can be a very rewarding
relationship, if you are tolerant, and can lead to many journeys, and enriching
cultural experiences.
Jupiter first: Yoko is strongly influenced by your
pronouncements, even though she may not agree in her heart. Try asking her for
her opinion.
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Expressing love and affection in your relationship with Yoko
does not come easily and this is a major challenge for you both. The natural
happiness that normally comes from romance and erotic games seems to be denied
you. Your commitment to each other probably developed hesitantly, yet with time
became very solid, almost to the point of seeming fated. This is because there
is a particular lesson to be learned from the relationship concerning
commitment, fidelity and responsibility. But it is essential that you in
particular lighten up - you have a lot to learn from your partner's ability to
converse socially and enjoy life. Often you respond with moral judgements,
probably because you feel insecure in precisely the areas where she is so
graceful. Relax the bonds on Yoko and loosen your inhibitions.
Saturn first: You often present Yoko with rules of conduct
which simply do not harmonize with her nature.
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Yoko This is a
major factor of compatibility between you, as you firstly feel a strong
admiration and respect for John and secondly feel flattered and secure because
of the attention he gives you. He can be the light of your life and you are
willing to freely give him love and devotion. At the same time you can have fun
enjoying all the pleasures life has to offer - from aesthetic pursuits to
sensory joys. This contact has great potential for a warm, loving and fruitful
relationship and it is strong enough to guard you against any other negative
influences that may arrive. At the beginning of the relationship you feel like
children again, and when you have children it seems like a natural extension of
your love of life.
Venus first: Spontaneous expressions of affection on your
part evoke a warm and supportive response from John who feels both strengthened
by your devotion and inspired to generously return the compliment.
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Being with John enhances your appreciation of life and makes
you aware of what is pleasurable but at the same time he encourages you to
think more about your values and to understand them on a higher level. You
cannot just rely on your natural charms and you cannot just expect to win his
appreciation and acceptance - John challenges you to ponder the meaning of
life. You may feel that you are judged unfairly or that your partner sees you
as being shallow when all you want is to cheer him up. Nevertheless, this
contact brings a warm and intellectually stimulating relationship - often
connected with travel and foreign climes. Extravagant tendencies predominate
when you are together.
Jupiter first: John expects you to listen to and admire his
views and opinions. Mostly you do show your appreciation but you can get tired
of being preached to.
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Living with John is not the easiest thing in the world for
you, and you often feel unloved and unappreciated - both emotionally and
materially. Your natural charm and love of life actually awakens the
inhibitions of your partner, who becomes aware of his clumsiness in this
respect. His response is to put a damper on you, under the pretence of being
more mature or responsible, and you may allow this to happen because you
project a parental role onto him. Of course you can learn a lot from this - not
to expect to be babied or spoiled, learning self-sufficiency, etc. - but
satisfaction and pleasure, both material and sexual - are important ingredients
in most relationships and something you, too, should be able to enjoy. You have
to work hard on yourself to make this relationship function - it requires
maturity, self-restraint and long-term commitment.
Saturn first: John likes to make the rules of the game and
this may often feel like a prison to you. Remember if you invest him with a
parental role then you evoke behavior from him which is inimical to romance.
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John�s Mars in Libra in 6th house
You are definitely the romantic type with a talent for
attracting the attentions of the opposite sex. Your good manners and social
graces can hardly fail to win over the heart of your chosen one, but there is
sometimes the feeling that there is a lack of emotional commitment. You have to
be very careful not to be led astray by affairs of the heart - there may be a
lack of staying power in your relationships. You excel at making contacts, and
in matters which affect your sense of fairness you may get quite passionate.
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You channel your energy into a hard-working life and are
strongly motivated to make yourself useful to other people. In this area you
are able to use your excellent judgement to impose your own sense of balance
and conceptions of taste upon the matters in question.
You will probably find that there is a lot of strife both
with colleagues in your working life, and in connection with organising household
tasks at home. You should know that you are actually too assertive in this area
and whilst you often feel that you are being pushed around, the opposite is the
case. You should ensure that you take the initiative in this area and you need
a partner who is prepared to accept this. Sexually, you are sort of
service-oriented, often focusing on pleasuring your partner, instead of
enjoying yourself. For a more greater erotic satisfaction within your
partnership, sex should not become a duty.
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Yoko�s Mars in Virgo in 12th house
You are hard-working and a perfectionist. With your
highly-developed critical sense, conflicts may arise concerning duties -
particularly housework. You have to control a tendency to bicker and fight
about trivialities. Cleanliness and even prudishness may characterize your
attitude to sexuality, but you enjoy physical contact and can be quite
sensuous. It is important for you to feel respected for the work you do. Too
much criticism, both of yourself and your partner, tends to upset the harmony
between you.
Female: You are attracted to a hard-working man who
expresses his devotion to you through helpfulness and industriousness. You may
relieve the pressure on him by taking on some of his duties.
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Your energies are turned within, in an exploration of the
psyche. You feel that there is a tremendous amount of work for you to do in
this area and tend to get weighed down by everyday tasks and worries.
It is not easy for you to achieve concrete results in your
activities, though in the realm of the imagination and visualization you have
special talents. However, your imaginative faculties are a double-edged sword
and psychic disturbance may arise if you fail to find ways to channel your
energies into some spiritual, social or creative vision. In relationships,
fantasy and imagination may wreak havoc, perhaps because of the partner's
unrealistic expectations, perhaps because of unfulfilled erotic needs. At best,
erotic satisfaction is elusive - and perhaps it is better to sublimate it, by the
exercise of your creative abilities.
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John�s Mars in Yoko�s 12th house
When you express your will or temperament - especially at
times of conflict - you can have a psychically disturbing effect on Yoko. You
shake up her inner world and awaken her imagination so that she may feel at the
mercy of her fears and fantasies. At best you learn to explore the inner world
of the psyche together, at worst you bring chaos to your partner's inner life.
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Yoko�s� Mars in� John�s 6th house
You and John make a good working partnership as you tend to
be active and dynamic, organizing and inspiring him in his daily life. Your
influence can create some stress, as there is a tendency to be busy some of the
time and critical at other times. Standards of perfection may be set too high.
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John�s Mars Trines Moon and Sex Pluto
You are a dynamic and emotionally spontaneous person with a
fierce need to protect those who are near and dear to you. A home-builder,
family maker and intrepid fighter, you know how to create an exciting environment
with great potential for growth. You rise to - and enjoy - every challenge and
convey an enthusiasm which lifts those around you. You may be temperamental and
emotional, but you cannot be boring.
You are attracted to a strong woman who shares your family
values and who is prepared to struggle to build the kind of home which is
important to you. For you, sexuality and procreation go hand in hand.
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You are a powerful person - of that there is no doubt - and
have a steely will which ensures that you get your way when you put your mind
to it. Generally you are motivated to create positive change in your
environment and fight corruption. Sexuality is extremely important for you in a
relationship and you have a magnetic, even hypnotic aura which may exert a
mysterious hold upon your loved one. You have the power to completely ignore
sex for a period, whilst at other times you are possessed by its attractions.
You tend to take control when making love and feel uncomfortable in a passive
role - and this may hinder orgasmic release. Through sexuality, deep
transformations take place in many areas of your life.
Male: During your life you have learned to handle power -
perhaps because you had to overcome a number of situations where you were
powerless as a child. Power games may still affect your intimate relationships
- especially sexually. You refuse to show weakness but this means that you may
seem autocratic. A woman feels she has to bend to your will. Nevertheless, your
positive attitude towards personal change ensures that you constantly seek to
improve your sex life, and this ultimately leads to deep insight into the
nature of your desire.
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John�s and Yoko�s Mars Conj Neptune
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Knowing what you want with your life and what to do to get
it, is a problem for you. Until you find a path which can channel your
creativity and vision, you will remain dissatisfied. In relationships this
confusion about direction may bring about a lack of commitment and the threat
of dissolution. You do not know how to discipline your desires and may have the
oddest convictions as to what is acceptable sexually. Infidelity and dissipated
behavior are a constant threat to your love-life - and indeed to your moral
well-being.
John You
constantly strive to attain the chimera of the perfect sexual experience. You
try everything, but the more you try the more elusive satisfaction becomes.
Pornography holds considerable allure. Your partner will often feel that she is
a disappointment to you. Sexually, the kind of release you are looking for will
never be attained, - but it can be sublimated through spiritual or creative
activity.
Yoko You are
attracted to a creative and idealistic man who conforms to your dream of
perfection. You may also be drawn to a man you can "save". Only a
short period of time elapses before you feel deceived. Obviously any potential
partner tries initially to live up to your ideals, but eventually he reverts to
type. To resolve sexual disappointments such as lack of desire, unfaithfulness
and dissatisfaction, you should apply the three golden rules: 1) Do not have
sex out of consideration for your partner alone 2) Share your fantasies 3)
Create your own seductive scenario - don't leave it to your partner. Remember
when you feel dissatisfied, your partner surely feels so too.
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Yoko�s Mars Sq Moon, Opp Mercury, Conj Jupiter
You are a dynamic and fearless person, willing to accept a
measure of risk in your life. There were many family battles in your own
upbringing and as a result, you tend to react by being overly defensive, or by
being aggressive, when you are under emotional pressure. This is not the way to
defuse tension; it only leads to escalating conflicts with your partner. By
learning self-control and by being more conciliatory, you may overcome your
irrational anger which appears to be inherited from your mother.
You are often tormented by extremely strong emotions and
this may make you short-tempered and irritable. Men in your life may be
strongly provoked by your emotional reactions, which they cannot understand.
Procreativity and family life bring troubles - perhaps because you are not at
ease with your role as a mother.
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You have a sharp and witty mind - perhaps even a naughty
one. An eager and dynamic student, you are a restless gatherer of information.
In your relationships you argue much too much. You voice has a cutting edge
because you are determined to be heard. Little things irritate you and you feel
that you have to put people straight. You argue aggressively for your ideas,
tending to put people on the defensive. Remember - the meaning of communication
is the response you get. It's not worth winning an argument and losing a
friend. Silence is golden.
Female: You are attracted to an intelligent man who may
teach you a lot. You love a discussion but are often drawn into energy-sapping
arguments. Early sibling relationships forced you to fight for your point of
view, but in married life this means strife. Arguments may often be resolved
through sexual channels - it's as if you need the provocation to get yourself
turned on.
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You have a strong sense of freedom and an adventurous
nature. You are motivated to explore your world and widen your intellectual
horizons and this may bring travel, absorption in studies and wide cultural
interests. You have very strong opinions and are very persuasive - it is
important for you to be right and you fight hard putting your point of view
across. Arguments often arise when you feel that someone is being unfair or
acts stupidly. You have a tendency to adopt a bullying tone and have difficulty
entertaining the idea that you might be wrong. Your self-righteousness is a
threat to your relationship.
Female: You are attracted to an intelligent man who can
teach you about life and who has a strong sexual appetite. Your loved-one may
come from a foreign country or be well-traveled. Your respect for your
partner's wisdom fades away with time and you begin to feel that he is
intellectually dominating or simply wrong. You waste your energy in arguing
about matters of principle. As your hunger for understanding is much stronger
than your partner's, you should not demand so much from him.
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