Have you ever considered using hypnosis to enhance your sex life? When done by your lover, hypnosis should be like good sex: While trusting the person whom is talking you into it, the session can have the richness of ecstasy, the intensity of pleasure, and the abundance of orgasmic heights to support your enjoyment. In the outcome, you will be closer than you had been before.

I suggest that you and your lover learn to do hypnosis for one another. Just like sex, it can become an important form of stimulation and pleasure.

Hypnosis is a very misunderstood word, but it is in common use by many people. I know, in theater, actors use "visual imagery" as a warm up exercise. This is as much a form of hypnosis as "guided meditation" and "guided imagery" are. But the overall concept is still the same.

Before I get too far into this, let me tell you about my fanaticism. I do not charge to do hypnosis sessions. I have never charged to do a hypnosis session, and I am now in my 14th year. Why? Because I believe that this knowledge needs to be learned by everyone, and if I charged even one penny, you would think I was into it for the money.

Since I do strictly volunteer work, I have set out, over these years, to break new ground in hypnosis. Many of the discoveries I have uncovered are posted on the internet at my site, written in such a way that YOU can learn to be a hypnotist.

You have been taught how to use your body and mind in many ways, but you have not been taught it all. There is one very important use of your mind that everyone should learn to use, but because of the fears that the media has suggested, many people who were curious about hypnosis turn away from it. Then again, if we let the media persuade us, we would never have come out in the first place.

I found that the mind can link up a known feeling, that is normally achieved from one part of the body, and place it to be felt or achieved at another. For example, if you are used to having intense orgasms focused from your sexual organs and you let, through a hypnosis process, your lover suggest that your tongue is the pleasure focus, you can get intense orgasms from kissing.

Reality, I have come to believe, is a personal experience. The explosion of people who have had "alien abductions" is a good example. Something, I know not what, happened to each of these people. Since it did not happen to everyone, society tells us that these people are crazy. But, when you get a bunch of these people together, and their experiences are shared, a lot of them have apparently experienced the same thing. By the same notion, the outside society depicted Gays and Lesbians as crazy.

Hypnosis offers you the chance to re-experience any feeling or memory you have ever had just from using a word to invoke it. Hypnosis also offers you the chance to do mental housekeeping, to uncover memories that you have been "forgetting" and then choose to move them into "not remembering." Forgetting takes lots of constant effort. Not remembering is as easy as losing your keys. By shifting "forgotten life experience" to "choosing to not remember", you release an incredible amount of mental strength, as well as removing headaches and other stuff. This is great for rotten childhoods, rapes, tormentations in schools, etc.

But using hypnosis to enhance sex can be wonderful. Just from a suggestion, the mind can mold and create mental interpretations of sensations in ways that they had not been felt before. You can taste colors, smell textures, and feel sounds. You can also change the strength of a sensation to be modified or enhanced, such as allowing orgasms to be felt from the fingertips, earlobes, armpits, toes, or just from stroking their hair.

At times, I have used the suggestion for a hypnotised person,"You are now going to have ten orgasms in a row." If the person likes the idea, and has the working knowledge of what an orgasm is, they may choose to feel this, and it can be both intensive and revealing. As I do a lot of hypnosis over the phone with people all over the US, I have found this is a very necessary suggestion, for people need pleasure. This definately adds a new depth to the term "Phone Sex."

When I decide I have time and the need is interesting enough, I may volunteer to do hypnosis over the phone. The people who call, do so on their own dime and pay for their own long distance call to me, but I do not charge for my time. I do, however, have the final decision over whether or not I do the session, as time permits.

With so many of our human family in the many difficult levels of the HIV wars occurring in and around us, the time for this approach has finally come. I am not suggesting that we do away with sex. But like a great lover, the pleasure of your partner can reach heights never achieved before if you take the time to learn the essentials of some new techniques. Just as you may have learned to give your lover a physical massage, by learning this, you can give them a mental massage.

Most every one of us has the potential to do hypnosis. It is much more effective, I have found, in people with good, strong, and vivid imaginations. If you can daydream to the point of having your eyes open but are somewhere else, you have already reached a level of altered reality.

If I can be of any help, please contact me on my web site. You will also see, on my main hypnosis page, a list of volunteers that have joined me in this ambition to help. I would be happy to help you learn more, but I also suggest, if you can find any copies, books by Estabrooks, Milton Erickson, Leslie LeCron, or Jean Bordeaux that deal with techniques in hypnosis or self hypnosis (the difference being, self-hypnosis being read or talked to someone else is call, simply, hypnosis).

A hypnotist has no magic wand. The hypnotist may know where you are going, but it is you who is doing all the work. If that hypnotist is your lover, then you should know that this person wants the best for you to experience. Merely from suggestion, pain can be turned down or off, pleasure turned up, extreme pleasure turned on, and orgasms centered wherever your lover suggests.

The sex we most desire is getting less and less safe, less available, and therefore less exciting. So, this is something new that we can learn to do for our playmate(s).

The time has come for hypnosis to come out of the closet. Though it may take time to learn it all, it is a necessary experience for us to learn and share. If we are to maintain survival in our search for pleasure, we need to try something new.

The following are suggestions that have worked. Mind you, in men, there is generally no erection, or ejaculation, just pleasure and orgasm as sensations.

There is a hypnotist in southern Florida that has broken this limitation, but it appears to be through an anchoring of different stages of orgasm to specific words, on a specific person (his lover). This technique is firmly supported by Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), which other hypnotists use.

If you want to...I would used this Suggestion: ============================================================================== Feel Pleasure..."I want you now to relax and as you do, allow yourself to feel pleasure."

Build to Orgasm..."The pleasure is building, pulsating." (Pause to let it happen.) "Now it's rippling from all over...You find yourself feeling more and more pleasure. Stronger and stronger. Deeper and deeper"

Suggested Orgasm..."Pleasure is really strong now...all the way to orgasm...Feel it!...NOW!"

Suggested Multiple Orgasm..."And as you come off the high, you will only come down a little, but then it turns and gets stronger and stronger, and you will continue in this way to have orgasm after orgasm"

Suggested Limit..."You will have" Say a number...for example...Ten "Orgasms in a row"

Suggested Unlimited..."You will have as many orgasms as you feel you want to have, over and over"

Reattachment of Pleasure..."Now, as you are having orgasms, the focal point of pleasure will shift to anywhere..."

The following are to be used to finish this last sentence:

Self-control..."You want the pleasure to surface. You may, if you wish, have orgasm wherever you touch yourself, or have it totally throughout your body from all points...you decide"

The following suggestions, to end that sentence, are for friends or lovers only.

Altered Foreplay..."I kiss, so that my tongue will trigger your next orgasm, and it will follow my tongue"

Enchanced Massage..."I touch, so as my fingers rub you, each provides intense pleasure"

Modified Bathing..."I wash, so that the sponge provides you with the best sensations you can have."

(c) 1997 David I Brager

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