Here are some things that fangirls can relate to:
1. Sleepless nights!
- You're not a fan if you haven't experienced staying up all night spamming, stalking, tweeting, admiring, or whatsoever just to make your idol or bias notice you.
To be honest, you can assume that mostly of the fans have their own fan accounts on twitter, facebook, tumblr, and etc.! These are actually one of the reasons most of us
are sleepy and tired as hell, right? You can't blame us, because that's the only way we know we could get updates and support our idols. That's why each and every fan girl
you know is dedicated.
2. Being called an EXTROVERT.
- Uhm, we're not really that extrovert? I assure you that we're even more updated in things you don't know we already know. We're actually more into joining cliques,
squad, group, and being friends with someone you haven't met yet (a fanboy/girl to be exact). Plus, i bet that you don't want to see us being wild as hell when we're talking
about our bias or idols. Lol! Also, we actually express our own emotions and feelings through listening to music or your idol's songs.
3. CONCERT TICKETS AND BAND MERCHANDISE
- IT IS SO HARD TO SAVE UP MONEY SPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE HUNGRY AND BROKE! I am not the only one who knows this kind od feeling that you have already set your goal on saving
up but can't achieve it because of your hunger and temptation to eat. I only have a dollar in my wallet, how can i buy a VIP ticket and band merchs that costs a lot more expensive
than my life. My parents won't even buy me a pack of gum! Please tell me im not the only one.
4. Fan Meet-ups, Parties, and Gathering
- Here's the deal, a big one. MY PARENTS WON'T EFFIN ALLOW ME TO ATTEND FAN MEET UPS AND GATHERINGS. It's either they think that it will affect my studies and it won't
help me get my grades even higher, or they think it's a way where i can meet a boy, but srsly, I WANT TO ATTEND THOSE KINDS OF GATHERING NOT BECAUSE I WANT TO FIND OR MEET I GUYS
TO FLIRT WITH BUT TO MEET MY MUTUALS WHICH I HAVEN'T MET YET. Well, i can't even blame them. They're just thinking and worried about my safety, plus, they don't understand our
position on being so dedicated to our bias(s). lol.
5. FANDOM WARS, DRAMAS, RUMORS, ISSUES, AND EVERYTHING.
- Honestly, I. AM. SO. DONE. WITH. DEALING. WITH. DRAMAS. AND. ISSUES. I can't stand anything anymore even when there's fandom wars, dramas, rumors, etc. All of the
rants, news, girlfriend or to be exact "BABY" rumors, and pictures that aren't even legit are so over! Please tell me i am not, the only one who's freaking tired with these kinds
of happenings with each and every fandom i'm part of. Can we just spread love, flowers, and candies?! THESE KINDS OF SITUATIONS MAKES ME WANT TO RIDE A UNICORN AND ESCAPE FROM
THIS WORLD.
6. DEALING. WITH. HATERS.
- Am i the only one who's even more tired dealing with haters? NO. Everyone does. All i can say is to understand them because the only thing we can do is to shut up and
calm down and let karma slap that person what he's been calling "gay","bisexual","drug addicts","auto-tuned singers", and many more because they don't know who they're calling that to.
Let's just spreaaaad love and try to make them understand that they don't even have the rights to say that. Though, we have this thing called "Freedom of speech" where you can say
anything what you want to say but the thing is you can't just stick with your own opinion, let's assume that they actually respect what you think about something or someone, but atleast
you should respect other's opinion as well even though you know it's getting really below the belt. I've been through a lot with this kind of situation of dealing with haters, so yeah.
So...That's all i can say! I hope you related with the things i have said (if you're a fangirl to be obvs). I actually kinda suck at making these lol.
Share me what other "Fangirl Moments and Struggles" you've experienced in my: