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Rather
than just an emotion, love is a state of being.
Authentic and true love has no specific matter or
direction. It is not choosy. People are always
speaking of their unconditional love for another.
Sometimes I wonder if they are aware of the
statement that they are making.
One's experience and awareness of existing as a
human being, conscious of life's true values, is
what unconditional love is all about. Everything
that is touched by it is experienced within this
state of love.
It
is a sense of oneness, of unity with all that comes
along with this feeling. There is no such thing as
to say you love another, but differently that many
may think you in fact ARE another.
That is the greatest lesson that Motherhood teaches
to the world. I am certain that if the world would
be treated and taken cared of as a child by a true
loving mother, probably most of the major problems
would be solved.
No one should ever wish others to become what they
personally would not want to be.
It
is very common to see people talking about
friendship, fraternity, unity, sisterhood, and so
on. Before making and pretending to follow such
statements, one should look at it's own image in a
mirror. The mirror in which one views the image of
itself is nothing else but one's so-called
sister/brother/colleague/neighbor, etc.
The
way I see things, each and one of us were born with
a destiny. If we would just focus on being ourselves
there could be a great chance that our destiny would
be headed far beyond anything we could possibly
imagine.
There
is no sense in speaking and wanting to be part of
any group if one does not understand what is the
meaning of individuality. Individuality does not
mean to be selfish. Individuality is about one
having total control of it's inner-self and being
aware of their own limits.
Looking
back, I try to understand exactly where we lost that
track of true family and friendship values.
I
may cause some sort of anger with what I am about to
say, but I think that the excess of the modernity
that has overcome the world will end up killing us
all. Too many things do things so we do not need to
have these things done ourselves.
Family
is becoming a broken institution. If that turns into
a total reality, there will be no way out for us.
Our children are the reflection of the education we
provide them with.
That
is not my personal opinion it is a fact. If we are
too busy, challenging ourselves, and becoming
increasingly addicted to the net, the family
structure will go down the drain.
I
am not saying that I am against any event, or that I
am judging anyone. I may sound as if I am out of
this world, but I have brains and I do make use of
it.
I
am saying that people that are not well resolved in
their private and professional lives have caused
many of the problems that have been happening to
several groups on the net, generally speaking.
It's
very important that whoever is reading this,
understands that:
I have problems just like everyone does.
I have good and bad moods like everyone else.
I get sick occasionally like a normal person.
Sometimes my kids really push me too far.
I have a family, a house to take care of, kids to
rear and a marriage. |
