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Ct-Tg-community North Eastern Connecticut Transgender Support is about the special health concerns of transsexual people.
Those who want to change their bodies to be like the other sex. The process of changing the body, through hormones, surgeries, and other means, is commonly referred to as "transitioning." Transgendered people are a diverse group, including people who feel a strong identification with the other gender; people who cross-dress occasionally or regularly; and people who actually change their bodies to look and feel more like the other sex. People whose genes, genitals, or reproductive organs aren't clearly male or female are intersexual. To learn more about intersexuality, visit the Intersex Society of North America website. What does transsexual mean? Why do transsexual people have special health concerns? Emotional issues for transgendered and transsexual people Frequency of mental health problems in transgendered people Medical issues for transsexual people Gender identity and youth What does transsexual mean? Transsexuals are persons who identify so strongly with the other sex or gender (biologic females who identify as men and vice versa) that they change their bodies, through hormones and sometimes surgery, to look and feel more like the other sex. Following transition, transsexual people often function quite normally in society in their sex of reassignment, and often those around them do not know that they were born the other sex. They may be straight, lesbian, gay, or bisexual -- gender identity is neither the same as, nor is it necessarily related to, sexual orientation. Biologic females who transition to live as men are also called transgendered (transsexual) men or FTM (female to male). Biologic males who live as women are called transgendered (or transsexual) women or MTF (male to female). Why do transsexual people have special health concerns? Transsexual people face a unique set of emotional health issues. Living in a body that feels foreign, and being perceived widely as a gender that feels wrong and unnatural is enormously challenging. In addition, the process of transitioning to the other sex brings up a myriad of specific challenges, some anticipated and others harder to predict. Transsexual people typically take cross-sex hormones throughout their lives and they may also undergo surgeries to change their bodies. Both the hormones and the surgeries can have specific health effects that need to be acknowledged and monitored to maintain the good health of a transsexual person. Emotional issues for transgendered and transsexual people Persons who are contemplating the process of transitioning from male-to-female (MTF) or female-to-male (FTM) may encounter a range of emotional reactions both in themselves and among those around them. Some of these reactions may be anticipated and prepared for; others may be unanticipated and difficult to manage. From a very early age, our culture makes a large and specific set of assumptions about individuals based on perceptions of gender. Sex role socialization is a powerful force that our culture uses to define "appropriate" and "inappropriate" boundaries and activities for each gender. Transgender individuals often experience anxiety and stress as they attempt to fit into a gender role that may match the outward appearance of their physical body but not their emotions or their more internal sense of their gender. Relief The decision to transition is often the result of a long and difficult process. Many transgendered individuals identify a sense of great relief that comes with finally being able to acknowledge their true selves and live in the body and gender role that is most natural for them. Transgendered people often feel enormous satisfaction at watching their bodies change with hormone treatments and surgeries, and at being seen by others as they feel themselves to be inside. Although societal acceptance of transsexual and transgendered people is far from complete, there is a growing and active community of transgendered people, both MTF and FTM, particularly in the coastal areas of the United States. There are also increasing numbers of books and online information and support for people transgendered people. Difficulties The transitioning process can also bring with it a new set of difficulties (and sometimes dangers) that result from the reactions of acquaintances, loved ones and the larger society to the transitioning process. New problems that may arise include: * Employers and colleagues who are not prepared for, understanding of or sympathetic to the issues of transgendered individuals. Many individuals find themselves either fired from their jobs or facing workplace hostilities that force them out of employment. The risk that individuals will experience acts of hostility and even violence directed against them is real. * Family members and friends who are not able to understand or accommodate the change process. Many transgendered persons begin the transition process long after they have married and raised their own families. Spouses, domestic partners, parents, children and close friends may be confused by the transition that is occurring and will need education and support to help them deal with what is happening. Some relationships end; others are able to survive the transtioning process. Sometimes children remain emotionally close to the transitioning parent; at other times children have taken years to reconcile with the transitioned parent, if they ever come to terms with the issue at all. Most importantly, the person who is in the midst of transition her or himself may be surprised at the feelings that emerge during the process. Being able to identify and work with a counselor or therapist who has expertise in transgender issues is critically important as the individual begins to explore the realities of becoming more fully themselves. Individuals socialized and seen their whole lives as male may experience significant difficulties as they begin to live and function as female, and visa versa. The journey across the gender divide is rarely an easy one. The combination of physical and emotional issues that can emerge can make the transitioning process a time of increased stress and risk for symptoms of depression, substance abuse, and anxiety. Despite this reality, most transgender individuals report that the joy they experience in becoming more fully themselves makes the journey worthwhile. Frequency of mental health problems in transgendered people While research is scant, transgendered persons appear to be at similar risk for mental health problems as other persons who experience major life changes, relationship difficulties, chronic medical conditions, or significant discrimination on the basis of minority status. * Depression There is some evidence that transgendered persons may be less likely to seek treatment for depression-fearing that their gender issues will be assumed to be the cause of their symptoms, and that they will be judged negatively. Because of these and other factors, depression associated with gender transition may be underdiagnosed. * Victimization and Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome (PTSD) Many transgendered persons experience some form of victimization as a direct result of their transgender identity or presentation. This victimization ranges from subtle forms of harassment and discrimination to blatant verbal, physical, and sexual assault, including beatings, rape and even homicide. The majority of assaults against transgender persons are never reported the police. A link between these experiences and mental health disorders such as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is widely suspected, but has not been adequately documented. * Suicide and self-harm Both suicide attempts and completed suicides are common in transgendered persons. Studies generally report a pre-transition suicide attempt rate of 20% or more, with MTFs relatively more likely to attempt suicide than FTMs. There is some evidence that transsexual people are less likely to attempt suicide once they have completed the transition to the other sex. Another form of self-harm in transgendered persons is genital mutilation. This is most common among transsexuals, although cross-dressers have done this as well. A 1984 study of a cohort of transgendered individuals who applied for services at gender identity clinics reported genital mutilation by 9% of the biologic males and breast mutilation was attempted by 2% of the biologic females. .......................................... Depression and Transgender Issues Persons experiencing gender dysphoria do not necessarily experience depression; however, my experience is that transgender people highly conflicted about making a fulltime gender transition or who have started a fulltime transition are at a greater risk of becoming depressed then the average person. The complex problems associated with gender transition, coming out, fears and anxiety, and uncertainty about the future all place a tremendous strain on a person's coping ability. When problems such as social intolerance, discrimination, under-employment and unemployment, and rejection by loved ones occur, coping skills often are overwhelmed. Social support from a transgender support group, friends and family can help to prevent an emotional collapse; however, transgender persons are sometimes isolated or isolate themselves from potential sources of support. The result can be loneliness, depression, alcohol and drug abuse. Suicidal thinking can occur when the emotional suffering is intolerable, when the suffering and the problems do not seem to have any resolution, and the person feels hopeless about the future. Suicide risk is often greater when suicide is viewed in a positive light, and when the person does not believe there are any significant reasons to continue living. What are the symptoms of depression? Depression is a disorder of mood where one feels sadness or irritability, a loss of interest and pleasure in activities in life, a loss of energy, and disturbed sleep. Symptoms last for at least two weeks more days than not, and cause some degree of disturbance in normal ability to function. Additional symptoms often include: feeling tired and lethargic. poor attention and concentration. inability to sleep normally or sleeping too much of the time. a loss of appetite or eating more than normal. hopelessness. negative self-esteem. loss of sexual libido. thoughts of death or suicide. How do I know if I am depressed? If you have 4 or more of the above symptoms for two weeks or more, and this cluster of symptoms is disturbing your ability to function to some degree, then you may have a depression that needs treatment. Do not assume that depression is a normal reaction to gender dysphoria or gender transition. It is not. Depression should be targeted for treatment in addition to any counseling you may be receiving for gender identity issues. There is no medical test for depression. Depression can usually be easily diagnosed by an experienced psychotherapist, psychologist, or physician. ............................................. http://www.gendercentre.org.au/58article9.htm Health Report - Depression & Transgender by Gianna E. Israel Depression is the leading mental health issue faced by transgender persons. However, unless a client or reader’s depression has progressed to crisis proportions it is the subject I am least likely to receive questions about. Depression is also the leading mental health issue faced by those who do not have a transgender identity. With this knowledge it should be clearly understood that when transgender persons are depressed, it does not mean that having a transgender identity or fulfilling one’s crossdressing needs is pathological, mentally disordered or medically diseased. Both transgender and non-transgender populations are equally unlikely to receive treatment for depression. This is tragic, because depression is one of the best understood mental illnesses, with recognizable symptoms and effective interventions. People do not seek treatment for a variety of reasons. Some individuals allow themselves to suffer tremendous pain, believing that obtaining help is shameful or a sign of weakness. Typically these persons have bought into the notion that mental health issues are stigmatizing or less important than medical conditions. In other words, people are more likely to seek treatment after contracting a painful, sexually-transmitted disease than get help for depression. It does not seem to matter how much emotional turmoil the person is suffering. Within both populations, there also exist numerous persons who recognize that they are moderately to severely depressed. Some of these individuals do not seek treatment because they believe it will be ineffective or they are suspicious of the medical and mental health professions. Because transgender persons continue to be discounted, misdiagnosed or characterized as pathological, particularly by professionals unfamiliar with gender identity issues, it is understandable that some will feel hesitant in seeking support for depression. This concern is an important dynamic in supporting transgender persons. I will address it after providing basic information about depression itself and how it is identified. Depression is a mood disorder characterized by extended feelings of sadness, loss, restlessness, discouragement, hopelessness, self-doubt and guilt. These feelings are often accompanied by noticeable changes in a depressed individual’s regular sleeping, eating and sexual habits. They are also likely to have changes in self-perception, think negative thoughts on an on-going basis, have difficulty making decisions, and sometimes, contemplate self-destructive acts. Their emotions typically swing sharply between feeling angry, sad, melancholic or moody. Depression is not about having one or several isolated bad or low-energy days; its about feeling badly and having an emotionally poor quality of life, day after day, with no hope of relief in sight. The preceding description reflects the state of mind that characterizes depression and lends understanding to why people do not seek treatment. The more severe the depression the more limited an individual’s ability to think realistically or recognize options which might improve their quality of life. Simply stated, most depressed persons routinely discount treatment options until everything else has failed. This type of “clouded” judgment also frequently slows the resolution of gender issues. Depressed transgender persons frequently feel compelled to move ahead in their transition without seeking adequate support. Also, in order to gain acceptance and reduce emotional turmoil, they may disclose their transgender issues without having taken into account potential consequences or its effect upon others. It is well documented within professional literature that depression can be caused by either one or a combination of medical, psychological or circumstantial factors. As a result there are a variety of treatment approaches which are designed to address this disorder. Therefore, while it is a positive step for people to acknowledge they are depressed, deciding ones’ own course of treatment or self-medicating is irresponsible and dangerous. A professional familiar with the treatment of depression should be consulted. In some circumstances anti-depressant medications may be useful, particularly when an individual is in crisis or experiencing debilitating emotional pain. Most anti-depressants are designed to take the edge off of the extreme lows or sharp mood swings which accompany severe depression. They provide temporary emotional relief allowing the individual an opportunity to build coping skills. Anti-depressants vary in their recommended length of use and several also address depression-related anxiety or manic-depression. Education within individual psychotherapy also plays an important treatment role and may be coupled with medication.. In learning about depression, people frequently feel that the tremendous pain they are suffering will never end. Being reassured that despondent feelings do resolve and that positive change is possible is an important part of treatment. It is also helpful for people to find out that they are not alone, and that there are numerous instances of successful treatment. Because depression exacerbates social isolation, peer support or group therapy can provide individuals with positive social contacts and an opportunity to hear how others combat depression. It should be noted that in providing depression treatment to transgender persons, there exist several dynamics which frequently prevent persons from seeking help. As previously mentioned, transgender persons routinely have been characterized as mentally disordered because their crossdressing and gender identity issues seem unusual to non-transgender persons. Regrettably such attitudes still exist today within the medical and mental health professions, particularly in locations that do not have access to up-to-date professional literature on gender identity issues. Both care providers and transgender persons should understand that having a transgender identity or individual crossdressing needs does not cause depression; rather they are caused by experiencing seemingly unresolvable social and circumstantial pressures. Learning effective coping skills which concurrently resolve these pressures while preserving a person’s gender identification is the correct approach in these situations. Transgender persons also avoid treatment for depression because it is widely believed that in order for treatment to be effective, both gender identity and depression issues must be addressed at the same time. This is not always the case. In some situations it is possible to provide symptom relief without having to immediately deal with gender identity issues. Individuals may seek support for their depression, stressing that they are not interested in discussing gender identity issues until they feel safe doing so, if it should it become necessary. Those who feel that disclosing their gender issues may prove compromising or be met with negativity, may choose not to. Rather, they can utilize the break from emotional anguish which is available through traditional depressive-symptom relief to seek gender-specialized resources for their crossdressing or gender identity issues. Having two care providers, one who dispenses depression treatment and the other who offers gender-specialized support is useful in many circumstances. This is particularly so when a transgender person does not yet have a sufficient level of communication skills and knowledge about gender identity issues to disclose to a helping professional unfamiliar with gender identity issues. The interpersonal difficulties and social hostilities which transgender persons experience can play a large role in causing or aggravating depression. This is particularly true for individuals who are coming to terms with gender issues without the assistance or awareness of gender specialized resources. “Coming-out,” disclosure concerns, balancing transition costs, social isolation, family rejection, and being single or unable to find acceptance from a significant other, are some of the recognizable sources of depression in transgender persons. Less frequently acknowledged contributors to depression include; unresolved gender identity conflicts in pre and post-operative persons, pre and post-surgical emotional adjustment, poor body image and low self-esteem. Transgender hormone administration also may play a causal role in depression. Because hormones are powerful chemicals, an increase or decrease in dosage can bring on changes in mood. Transgender persons and their physicians need to recognize that routine laboratory testing of blood-based hormone levels helps insure that dosages are effective, yet not so high as to create debilitating mood swings or dangerous medical complications. Gradual changes in hormone dosages are a sensible precaution that provide an opportunity for physical and emotional adjustment. Also, individuals who are initiating hormone administration frequently are poorly prepared for the emotional changes that go with it. These persons are encouraged to adjust their thinking and seek support for their needs much as women do during menopause. This is particularly so for transgender women who choose to cycle their hormones so as to mimic the biological rhythms genetic women experience. Lastly, care providers need to be aware that a lack of access to hormones also produces high rates of depression, emotional mood swings, and occasionally suicidal feelings. This is particularly so when public institutions, and medical or mental health providers deny transgender persons access to hormones because it is against policy or care provider staff are unfamiliar with gender identity issues. Transgender persons should not be denied access to hormones or cut-off from pre-existing prescriptions solely because a care provider is uninterested in or unfamiliar with supporting transgender persons. Transgender hormone administration is a routine medical procedure and transgender persons are no less entitled to informed medical care than other patients. Transgender persons can suffer depression caused by situations or disorders that are in no way related to gender issues. Transgender persons need to recognize this, and research treatment options before things reaching a crisis. It is senseless for individuals to suffer from depression when successful treatment options exist. In many circumstances severe and long-term depression can be halted with early intervention. If you are a person suffering from depression, start searching for help now and do not give up until you find it. Most gender-specializing care providers are familiar with treatment and available resources. If you do not have a gender specialist in your area, traditional mental health counseling and psychiatric resources are listed in your local telephone directory. Lastly, if you would like to read more about combating depression, most bookstores and libraries have numerous professional and self-help titles available.

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