The Art of A Good Marriage
Read by Nadine Cooper
Nadine
Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I Love You" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with
the honeymoon, it should continue through all the years.
It is having a mutual set of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but
in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in
thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
~~Wilferd Arlan Peterson
