How do you handle the disappointments of life—the times when
trials and tragedies strike suddenly and leave you wondering what you will do?
Is your first response one of shock and disbelief? Do you cry out, “Lord, why
did this happen? Why didn’t You stop it? What have I
done to cause this?”
One man recently said, “I
don’t understand why God has allowed me to experience such pain. I just feel
like giving up.”
My reply: “Don’t! Never give
up, because God has a plan for the disappointments and suffering you face.”
Yet, immediately following the
crucifixion, the disciples would have dismissed this advice. They went into
hiding for fear that they would also be tried and condemned to death. John and
Peter, along with the remaining handpicked disciples, cowered in a small room
that had been the site of the Passover dinner the night before.
Other followers left
A week before the crucifixion,
they had celebrated His entrance into the city in preparation for the Passover.
No one could have imagined that a few days later, Jesus—the One they believed
would free them from the tyranny of Roman rule—would be dead as a result of crucifixion.
The idea was inconceivable. Yet it happened. Tragedy struck without warning.
And when it did, the dreams Christ’s disciples held for the future died too. Stunned
beyond words, they fumbled for some flicker of hope—some sign from heaven that
the events of the past few hours had not really taken place. But they had. To
clinch this fact in their minds, they needed only to visit the sealed tomb where
the hastily buried body of their Lord and Savior lay.
Though the Bible does not
record it, we can imagine Peter, or better yet, Thomas asking more than once,
“How could this happen? Why did it happen? He was just here. I can still
remember the sound of His voice and the touch of His hand on my shoulder. Why,
God? Why?”
on the way to Emmaus
It is okay to ask the Lord why
He has allowed you to face an unforeseen tragedy or problem. He may or may not
answer your question, but either way, the only things that truly matter are the
focus of your faith and the fact that He is at work in your life. He has not forgotten
you.
Remember, the Lord is not the
author of pain and sorrow. We live in a fallen world, and problems are a part
of the natural landscape of life. Yet, in many cases, God uses the
disappointments we suffer to draw us closer to Himself.
He does not want us to waste our sorrows. There is much to learn through
difficulty, if we will allow Him to teach us.
Before His death, Jesus told
the disciples He would suffer and die. However, they did not listen to His
words—not really—and certainly not with their hearts. If
they had, the crucifixion would not have disheartened them so, because Jesus also
told them that after three days, He would rise again (Mark 8:31). They had heard
the words but failed to comprehend the truth God gave them. Like many of us, when
tragedy hit, they fell apart emotionally and mentally.
On the way home to Emmaus, two
of Jesus’ followers discussed the events of the past week. They were so wrapped
up in their thoughts that they barely noticed the stranger who began to walk beside
them.
We have all probably
experienced a time like this—when we were so wrapped up in our emotions that,
while talking to one or two people, we did not notice others nearby. The Bible,
in fact, tells us these men “were prevented from recognizing Him” (Luke 24:16).
God may have allowed their blindness in order to reveal His risen Son in a way
that would have the most powerful impact on them.
After a few paces, Jesus
asked, “What are these words that you are exchanging with one another?” (v.17)
Luke tells us that when the men heard this question, they “stood still, looking
sad.” They were shocked and probably thought, Where have you been for the past 24
hours? Did you not hear that Jesus Christ was crucified? He was then spoke truth to their hearts. “O foolish men and slow of
heart to believe in all that the prophets have spoken!” He said. “Was it not
necessary for the Christ to suffer these things and to enter into His glory?”
(Luke 24:25-26) Christ’s death on the cross was necessary in order for us to
receive God’s mercy and forgiveness. These men had not taken into account that
the Lord had a plan in mind. In the short time He was with them, Jesus opened
their minds to God’s truth in a fresh, new way. Their passion was rekindled and
their hope returned. As they approached the city of
However, the Savior’s
compassion for these two men was great. He listened as they recounted every
detail leading up to His crucifixion. He never interrupted. Instead, He loved
them even though the light of their faith had grown dim. He understood the
sense of loss they felt, but He also knew this loss would soon be transformed
into eternal hope.
fresh hope
Jesus could have appeared to
kings and princes, but He chose these men—men who were brokenhearted,
discouraged, and anxious about the future. He knew their faith was waning, but
rather than chastise them, He walked with them and then
spoke truth to their hearts. “O foolish men
and slow of heart to
believe in all that the prophets
have spoken!” He said. “Was it not necessary for the Christ to suffer these
things and to enter into His glory?” (Luke 24:25-26) Christ’s death on the
cross was necessary in order for us to receive God’s mercy and forgiveness.
These men had not taken into account that the Lord had a plan in mind. In the
short time He was with them, Jesus opened their minds to God’s truth in a
fresh, new way. Their passion was
rekindled and their hope returned.
As they approached the city of
You may be at a point where
you think there is little hope left. Perhaps your dreams have been shattered,
your heart has been broken, and your goals for the future derailed. Or it could
be that you have never experienced the amazing love of God through a personal relationship
with Jesus Christ. Just as Jesus came to these men, He will come to you. The
grave is empty, the Savior has risen, the stone has been rolled away, and His
nail-scarred hands are outstretched in your direction.
rekindled passion
There are three things we can learn from this account.
We, like the disciples, need the Savior.
The heartache these men faced was so deep that nothing could ease
their pain. They faced a sudden loss unequal to anything they had ever
experienced.
Many people face one
difficulty after another. They have never considered the eternal freedom that
comes from confessing sin and receiving God’s forgiveness.
The Lord told His followers,
“All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the
one who comes to Me I will certainly not cast out” (John 6:37). If you have never
received Jesus as your Savior, you can do so right now. He loves you
unconditionally, and He has a plan for your life.
Sometimes a course correction is
needed—mentally and physically. The
disciples were headed home, where they could languish
in their sorrow. Jesus, however, had made it clear He would
return. He had told them, “Do not let your heart be
troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me. In My father’s house
are many dwelling places; if it were not so, I would have
told you; for I go to prepare a place for you. If I go and prepare a
place for
you, I
will come again and receive you to Myself, that where I am, there you may be
also” (John 14:1-3).
The men had shifted their
focus from God and instead fixed it on their circumstances apart from Christ.
When our thoughts begin to tumble toward depression and anxiety, our physical health
usually suffers. Feeling sick and fearful, we consider giving up. But God wants
us to know that, just as He had a plan for the resurrection, He has a plan for
the difficulties we face. When we trust Him, He brings good out of every
heartache, disappointment, and trial.
At times, we need to “return to
There are times when you will not
know the next step to take. However, God does. He knows the beginning and He
knows the end. If you will turn to Him and ask Him to make His will for your
life clear, He will do it.
These men’s eyes were opened
to God’s truth the moment Jesus broke the bread they were about to eat. He handed
it to them, and then He was gone. But they knew in their hearts that He had not
disappeared. He was alive! As a result, the next step they took was toward
My prayer for you this Easter
is that the eyes of your heart will be set on the Savior. Allow Him to take
control of
every area of your life, and you also will experience fresh hope and a
rekindled passion for God.