;Want to get Marry in Indian Way
Indians are known for their traditional life styles, food, heritage, dances and of course for music. They know how to pull all stops when it comes to celebrating and what's better occasion to celebrate than a wedding ?
Engagement:
As soon as the couple agree to wed, the Engagement (roka ,saith�many more names) ceremony, which is an announcement that the Bride and Groom have found their soulmates. Here I shall like to pointout that one must announce that publicly�.or tell others via any media. May be on net, if it comes to TG/TV marriage and you want to hide it from open. It gives you a feel of pleasure and nice feeling that one must experience. You start planning the things, dreaming about you together and much more and will think all about your partner. As per Indian traditions girl wore her the nath (nose ring) on her wedding. The wedding can be held anytime after the engagement ( explained below) and not be settled in gap thereafter. Date for marriage canbe fixed in consultation with a pundit or astrologer.
Sagai
This is held quite before the wedding day ( may be week before ) but incase of urgency ( TV/TG ) you can have this on the same day. Thus your wedding celebrations begin with the tikka ceremony carrying beautifully wrapped gifts and the tikka material: a silver tray with a few grains of rice and saffron in a tiny silver bow. The father of the girl ( it can be bride in tv/tg case)applies 'tikka' on grooms forehead. In return, the girl receives baskets of dried fruits. Then the girl is draped with a chunni (stole), which is usually with lot of patch work & very ornate. She will also wear jewelry, mehendi is applied to her palm for good luck, and rings are exchanged.
Mehendi
The major function before the wedding is the mehendi (Henna). It can be applied on hands and feet of the bride. Bindis and bangles are most important to wear to the wedding.
The Final Countdown
Not bride is not supposed to meet the groom (if he can stay away!).On the morning of the wedding, batna, a paste of flour and turmeric, is applied to the face ,hands and legs of the bride. This is believed to beautify the skin. She then has a bath and sits for the puja, after which she is made to wear the bridal 'chura', red and white ivory bangles that signify her status as a bride. Then tie a kalira (jingle) on these churas, which convey good wishes and blessings.
Same way groom too can apply batna , wear nice suite and you two are ready for marriage.
At the venue
Before the final wedding the bride is brought out and the couple exchange garlands. The groom, who is usually taller than the bride, is not supposed to bend while she is garlanding him, to tease the bride as if to say she is the one who would have to compromise in the relationship; he will not bend. Another game played is by placing a ring in a plate filled with milk. The bride and groom dip their hands in the plate and the one who comes out with the ring will dominate in the marriage.
The wedding concludes with the pheras, where the couple exchange vows in front of the sacred fire. He puts sindoor and mangal sutra to bride.Parents of the bride give her hand to the groom in marriage in what is known as the kanyadaan. The couple then take four rounds of the fire, and seven steps to the North to signify advancement as they walk together through life. Then the bride puts a foot on a stone as she says no matter what problems come their way, she will be stable - solid as a rock. The bride then makes a tearful farewell to her new home in what is known as the 'bidai'. Traditionally she would sit in a doli (palanquin) which would be carried by the bride's brothers. She gets in, and zooms off to her new home - and new life.
Suhag Raat ( Honey moon Night )
The last step of ceremony but first step of your beautiful union. The room is decorated with flowers, scented and lit with dim lights. You may play on some nice slow music. Bride covered in traditional dress and with duppata on her face is waiting for her groom sitting on the bed. You can wear nice red or golden or pink lahnga-choli with matching dupatta. Lot of bangles, mehndi, tikka, nathni, pajeb, bichwas, nice sandles, rich red/pinkish makeup (matching your outfits), rings, long painted nails, smooth hair less pinkish skin, earrings etc shall make you not only traditional Indian bride but He will love to see you in that dress and intern you will get your best of gift from HIM.
Bride sitting on bed and waiting for her groom keep on thinking about nice moments ahead. It gives the real nice sensation to your body which only one bride can experience. Plan out how you will approach him but let him take control of the activities.
Heres come the groom to honeymoon bed. Bride shrinks a little and bangles,pajeb makes a romantic music which can not be expressed in words. He comes close to you and tries to take duppata off. Bride shows resistance and then he presents a nice gift. Then he will see the face of his bride and you shying and blushing red with shame. He may try to kiss you but you show on distance but let him do what he tries to do. Just relax and enjoy. After that you may standup and present him the gift and offer glass of milk. Milk is supposed to be the best for his sexual powers and then only you can feel the real experience of a woman. He may fill sindoor once again and bride touching his feet showing he is her master & lord.
Let him take you the bed. Return and enjoy the kisses but keep on resisting and shying. Let him undress you and himself. See at HIM but not let him know. Try hiding your body. You may wrap your legs together showing him how shy you are. Once in his embrace feel his body. Measure with your soft hands. Try other tips given in our other pages of presenting yourself, tips for date and tips for nice sex.
Keep one thing in mind that nothing is dirty and bad in sex. Once fully naked infront of each other then try all possible ways.
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