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Why Women Stop Having Sex
Posted August 27, 2007 3:41 PM
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By Bob & Susan Berkowitz
There is a stereotype that when two people in a heterosexual committed relationship are no longer having sex, the person who is most likely to have instigated the end of intimacy is the woman. She'd rather read a book, wash her hair, do the laundry -- pretty much do anything other than share physical intimacy with her loving spouse. She perhaps wasn't always this way; the relationship might have once been red hot. But now, bewilderingly, the passion has died.
Of the estimated 20 million married couples in America living in sexless marriages (sex less than ten times a year) most therapists believe that about
Lookinf For Sex half the time it is, in fact, the woman's choice. The other half of the time, it's not. We recently wrote a book about this counterintuitive truth: He's Just Not Up for It, Anymore. When Men Stop Having Sex, and What Women Are Doing About It, published by HarperCollins/William Morrow in January 2008.
When we were doing the research, we were surprised that many men took the time to write to us that they were, indeed, in
question about sex sexless marriages, but it was their wives who rejected intimacy, not them. These men seemed as confused, hurt and rejected as
sex bondage their female counterparts. They asked us why this was happening, and what they could do to bring passion back to their marriage. So many men wrote to us that we decided to research the issue from the female perspective. There is a link to our new survey at the bottom of the page.
Please note that there is no one easy response to this question. A lack of
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So, if a person in a committed relationship has a low libido, but it isn't causing unhappiness to either or both, it isn't HSDD and it isn't a problem. This is an obvious, but important, point. If two people are happily married, but sex just isn't all that important to either of
babysitter sex stories them anymore (or never was to begin with) they have no issue, because there is no "marked personal adult sex toy party companies or interpersonal distress."
Unfortunately, this usually isn't the case. One person still desires intimacy, and the other doesn't. Why? What are the gender differences in this situation?
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Many women are angry. They think their husbands should do more around the house, or more with the lolita sex stories kids. They suspect their husband is having an affair, or maybe found out that he did have an affair many years ago, and can't get past the hurt. Some say their guy has gained a lot of weight, and, frankly, could dress a little bit spiffier when they're home alone. In other words, he doesn't turn them on anymore. Or, they claim they are tired of being ignored, and feel that watching a ballgame roadrunner bird sex has become more important than conversation, or just about anything else. All of this resentment builds, until any desire to be close is gone. The beginning of the end starts when sex is withheld as punishment for everything perceived of as being wrong.
And some are just plain bored. They only want to have sex if it's worth having. Otherwise,
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We thoroughly researched why men stop having sex, and found out a lot of
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A COMPANY free online cartoon sex games director who thought he was grooming a 14-year-old schoolgirl for sex, has moved a step closer to overturning his potentially life-long jail term.
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