I guess I procrastinated long enough
to share some info about myself.
Well...my friends call me Tam
I am 38 years old, Taurus,
born and raised in Frankfurt, Germany.
I live in Lancaster, NY
with my 15 year old son Joe, Bon the love of my life
and of course our two furry kids, Shiloh a black Labrador Retriever and Dakota a Rottweiler/German Shepard Mix.
When I am not in "my corner" in Sapphos or in AmaranthWomyn
I support my Online Addiction by working as
a Technical Operations Supervisor for a major Wireless Phone provider...




...to be continued...





NOT WHAT YOU MIGHT EXPECT




I am not a heterosexual.

I am not bisexual.

I am not androgynous.

I am not perpetuating a patriarchal, heterosexist paradigm.

I am not lost. I am not a fag hag.

I am not confused. I am not anti-feminist.

I am not acting out internalized homophobia.

I am not trying to look straight.

I am not a closet case.

I did not forget to change clothes after work.

I am not weak. I am not submissive.

I am not stupid. I am not in need of protection (very often).

I am not on my way to my mother's house.

I am not ashamed to be a lesbian.

I do not do femmes.

I do not do men. I am a lesbian.

I would love to be a housewife. I shave my legs.

I paint my nails and wear makeup. I wear dresses.

I slow-dance and waltz. I prefer to be on the bottom.

I sometimes like to be on top.

I am an ardent feminist. I am strong and intelligent.

I once played tee-ball.

I enjoy flannel as much as the next girl.

I hate asking for directions.

I only do butches.

I am proud of who and what I am.

I am femme.

~~Amy Warner Candela *The Femme Mystique*.

	Vital Statistics
	Name:	Birth: Tamara aka Tam Wiccan: Tatjania
	Birthdate:	April 22nd, 1967
	Birth Place:	Homberg, Germany
	Height:	5'9"
	Weight:	135 lbs
	Hair:	Dark Brown - yes I am a blonde by choice
	Eyes:	Green (changing color depending on mood and light)
	Marital Status:	Hmmm... "In love"..."taken"...married since September 2nd, 2000 ...:) "Bon, I love you with all my heart*************"
	Mode of Transportation:	96' Saturn SC1 - Darkgreen and at times I 'borrow' Bon's 2003 Chevrolet Blazer- Burgundy and of course the vehicle I live in my Work Truck a white 2001 Ford Explorer
	Primary Interests:	Web Page design, studying Witchcraft, listening to music, eating out, shopping, writing, pencil drawings, ceramics, crafts, my 'wife and my son
	Favorites:	Movie: The Wizard of Oz and Silence of the Lambs TV show: I hardly watch TV and when I do it's shows like 20/20 or Dateline, Decorating shows and Bon got me hooked on Investigative Reports and FBI Files Ice Cream: Rocky Road Food: Spaghetti, Shrimp Scampi Candy: Kit Kat Restaurant: Cameo's in Buffalo and TGIF's Animal: Wolves Author: Far too many to list here Color: Purple and Black Gemstone: Amethyst Precious Gemstone: Diamond...hehehe they are a girls best friend after all... Type of Music:Too many to list - please look at my Music Links to get a general idea Drink: Pepsi Flower: Rose Time of Day: Night

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