Photograph of
Ruth
HODGES (nee
MERCER)
& her husband
Albert
James Hodges (born 12th
Jan 1857, Hollingbourne) (died 7th Jan 1933). Albert grew up
in a local workhouse, which he only left, when an Aunt took
him out with his sister Mary Ann to help her. Mary Ann had
to hold a taper for her Aunt to see, to finish sewing, which
she took in, to earn money. I am not sure, which Aunt took
them in and this is one family mystery still to
solve.
Albert's first job to earn a few
coppers for his Aunt, was as a mobile scarecrow being
employed to scare the birds in fields, he had to start work
at 6:00am finishing about 6:00pm. He was probably employed
in "rook-starving", which I have seen described as,
"employing boys to hide in the hedges and when the birds
alighted, dashing out making as much noise as possible, with
wooden clappers, banging tins ect.". He was often, so tired
that he used to fall asleep in the fields. Eventually he was
apprenticed to a blacksmith, who he said was a very sincere
and punctual man.
Albert's brother William was not
so fortunate, tragically dying after falling into a ditch in
a drunken stupor.
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Ruth
MERCER (b. 11 Nov 1857 d. 22
March 1960 aged 102)
In this photo, which looks as if it
was taken in the early 1900's Ruth is wearing the badge of
the Cambridgeshire Regiment. This was not her husband's
regiment since a photo of him taken around the same time
shows him wearing a lapel badge of the Royal Kent Buffs. So
the badge is currently a mystery.
Ruth taught her husband Albert to read
and write. They joined the Methodist Church and Temperance
Society, which encouraged him to give up his daily glass of
beer.
None of
Ruth
HODGES (nee MERCER)'s children
were given any middle names, because, she said that the
surname was quite enough,
Ruth's mother
Mary Ann
MERCER (nee
MILHAM)
was a National School Misstress, who ran a "Dame School" in
the 1881 census she lived in Guston Village, so may have
taught in the Village school.
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Albert
HODGES (sitting) with his sons
Albert
HODGES and
James
HODGES, the medals worn are
unknown except for the medal worn by
Albert
HODGES snr. (sitting), during
World War I, he was a Special Constable wiith the Kent
Constabulary and the medal was awarded to all who served in
some capacity.
Albert James
HODGES (born 12th January 1857, Hollingbourne,
died. 7th January 1933, in Victoria Hospital, Deal, buried
in Deal Cemetry) married Ruth
MERCER (born 11th November 1857 died 22nd March
1960 aged 102) on 15th February 1879 at Lenham Parish
Church.witnesses at he marriage were
Henry HENNEKER, &
Caroline Hughes HENNEKER (nee
MILHAM). (Notes 1) in 1881, census living at 6
Tufton Road, Ashford. 2)
Ruth taught him to read
and write. 3) Albert
died after an emergency operation for a burst duodenal
ulcer
children
Thomas HODGES (born
22 April 1881, died 19 September 1965 in St. Mary's Hospital
Etchinghill )
Albert HODGES
Marion HODGES (died 3
October 1906, aged 19) married
Arthur P. HENNIKER
Ruth HODGES (lived
Sittingbourne died aged 34)
Rachel HODGES
Kate (Kathlyn)
HODGES
Elizabeth HODGES (b.
9 March 1894 Sellindge, Hythe, Kent, d. 30 Oct 1989)
William HODGES (d.
infancy aged 5 weeks)
Mabel HODGES (d.
infancy 13 months old, of whooping cough)
James HODGES
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Ruth HODGES nee
MERCER was the first
person in our family, to receive a 100th Birthday telegram
from Queen Elizabeth II, on 11th November 1957. Attending
the celebration were the Mayor and Mayoress of Folkestone,
her daughters Rachel and Elizabeth and Rachel's husband
Robert Cochrane.
At the time of her death aged 102, in 1960, she was the
oldest person living in Folkestone.
She was a member of the Methodist Church for over 70
years, and was a regular worshipper at St. Andrew's
Methodist Church,
Cheriton.
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